Hi,
I feel like I'm going in to heat! It's terrible. Its' all I can think about! I feel like I'm a sixteen year old again. Being in this condition make it kind of hard to think clearly since all my though processes seem to inevitably lead back to sex. It's like trying to go shopping when your hungry. Everything looks good! It's probably not a good idea to try to make rational decisions while in a constant state of hornyness. Does any one else get these sudden attacks of libido?
And yes, I've tried to take care of it but that just seems to make it worse.
Well, thanks for letting me vent and get some of this out of my system. (sorry for the bad puns)
I feel like I'm going in to heat! It's terrible. Its' all I can think about! I feel like I'm a sixteen year old again. Being in this condition make it kind of hard to think clearly since all my though processes seem to inevitably lead back to sex. It's like trying to go shopping when your hungry. Everything looks good! It's probably not a good idea to try to make rational decisions while in a constant state of hornyness. Does any one else get these sudden attacks of libido?
And yes, I've tried to take care of it but that just seems to make it worse.
Well, thanks for letting me vent and get some of this out of my system. (sorry for the bad puns)
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Re: Going in to heat.
Fri, February 2, 2007 - 1:10 PMyes a couple of times a year,sometimes more often.not a safe place to be unless you have something already established in the way of a relationship. -
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Fri, February 2, 2007 - 2:52 PMYes, I have a relationship and I feel bad that she has to deal with my condition. -
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And how does she feel about your condition?
Tue, April 24, 2007 - 7:36 PMAnd if she needs help dealing with it, I'm sure there'll be tons of volunteers ;-) -
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Re: And how does she feel about your condition?
Tue, May 1, 2007 - 8:45 PMYeah, what Kim said.
Yes, I go through those libido on fire times myself, and my gf just isn't interested in sex right now ("right now" being quantified in months, rather than days or weeks). I'm going nuts! Of course, my partner doesn't want me going outside the relationship with anyone who doesn't have her approval... and yes, I'm very seriously considering an affair. I love my gf, and still really miss sex with men. *sigh*
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Re: Going in to heat.
Thu, May 24, 2007 - 1:58 PMI've got this problem. And it doesn't help that my two girlfriends live 2 hours away. The only cures I've found that work are a really intense scene, exercise, extremely edgy sex, or a good cry. Doing something creative has also worked to abate the symptoms for a few days. -
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Re: Going in to heat.
Thu, August 30, 2007 - 5:05 PMWhat Jen said... of course being a scorpio i'm supposed to be this way??? It doesn't help not having found any mate that ever fullfilled me :( meh... I've devoted myself to eating right, creativity and exercise!!! being in heat sucks... I'm in heat at least one week a month I swear lol.
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Re: Going in to heat.
Thu, June 21, 2007 - 4:26 AMYes... usually for two weeks at a time, right before the full moon... with bigger seasonal cycles.
I swear, I catch myself humping furniture if I let it get too out of hand! -
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Re: Going in to heat.
Sat, June 23, 2007 - 12:51 AMSo people get off humping furniture! There's nothing wrong with it. Heh.
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Re: Going in to heat.
Thu, June 21, 2007 - 7:56 AMYes, but rather than a physical urge to have sex and sexual contact, it is more like I have an explosive psychological urge to masturbate now, to get the fantasy juices flowing and the purely erotic fantasies that really get me off and quick..... then masturbate again later..... then again later...... it doesn't happen too frequently, since I have sex regularly, but maybe every few months or so...... but I do like it :-D
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Re: Going in to heat.
Mon, July 2, 2007 - 3:47 AMHeh.
Most of the time. :/
And safer, consentual gangbangs are so difficult to arrange!
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Re: Going in to heat.
Mon, July 30, 2007 - 3:39 AMi go into heat quite often. im an aries with a completely infested with fire natal chart, so my libido is off the scales. i know the feeling you get, i get it often around some people, or sometimes just in general. its like in dark angel where she just cant stop so she rides out to find the first hot guy and then screws his brains out to get the horniness over with! (although not necessarily the same as our own methods)
i have a naturally high libido, but there are points where it starts climaxing on its own. i personally love it because it makes me want to beg my lovers for the satisfaction i need
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Re: Going in to heat.
Mon, September 3, 2007 - 5:42 PMAt my age (39) I've come to really appreciate and enjoy when I get those feelings. They're frequent enough to be fun, but infrequent enough not to be a serious bother. Seriously! -
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Re: Going in to heat.
Thu, September 6, 2007 - 12:05 AMAnd I thought I was the only one. Glad I'm not the only one who experiences this. -
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Re: Going in to heat.
Sat, October 6, 2007 - 9:58 AMI am quite the opisit. My libido is extreamly low, almost non exsistant, we can and go often go 2 or 3 months with out sex, or bdsm play of any kind, then I get obsessed, and it's like bdsm play and sex is all I can think about, and my partner's not here, and I am not allowed sex play with others, so the only choice I have is to put up with it and try not to beam high energy sex demands full force at him, cause he gets annoyed, and gets tired of me obsessing about playtime. -
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Re: Going in to heat.
Sun, October 7, 2007 - 10:05 AMChris,
Sounds like you've been trained quite well to suppress your sexual energy, and so that might be what's contributing to your low libido. -
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Re: Going in to heat.
Sun, October 7, 2007 - 9:57 PMHey April,
My libido's been really low as an adult normally, even before the times I am trying not to blast sex energy demands at him. Sex as a legal adult capable of consenting to it has always just been a difficult topic. I was thinking of maybe a sex therapist, along with some serious work with my partner in raising arousal levels. -
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Re: Going in to heat.
Mon, October 8, 2007 - 5:44 PMChris,
Certainly, I think therapy might be a great way to help you two so long as he's also open to it. Also, exercise, diet, and even looking into some creams or pills may also be of help to put you in the mood. I also think given that you and your partner have such a limited time to spend with one another when it comes to play, he shouldn't be annoyed when you are feeling frisky. -
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Re: Going in to heat.
Tue, October 9, 2007 - 5:59 PMApril, he's open to me seeking therapy, and if it was a sex therapist he'd go too, but regular therapy which I also wanted, he's made clear he's not comfortable going in on the sessions with me. He only gets annoyed when I beam high frequency sex needs at him, not all the time when I am frisky just when it's the only thing I can think of and I am beaming sex full force lol.
We've had a talk about it and he says he'll try to have more energy for sex and bdsm when he's here so I don't get so needy when he's away.
What do sex therapists do exactly? How would they help with issues of low libido and not enough enjoyment from the act if the not enough is pychological?
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